Get Your Shit Together

Why is it hard for me, to stick with, not using social media? Why am I not able to make it a habbit? So according to me for one bad habbit to go away, there must be another habbit to take its place. But the new habbit must not be hard or much less entertaining because then it's really hard to make it stick. Secondly make it hard for yourself to engage in that bad habbit. I'll will illustrate it later. So how can I apply this to my life? First of all, I need a new and healthy habbit. For me it's going to be reading books, of course. And I can make it entertaining, by reading book about topics that I'm interested in. I can read "biography of malcom x". I spend most of my time in drawing room, So I should keep my phone in my bedroom. Use the "forest" app, frequantly. Keep in mind, that it is not going to be easy because an addiction is very hard to break, but it is always worth it. Lastly I want to say that ask ALLAH for help because without ALLAH's...

Lets say you don't like the way someone treat you, but, you say to yourself  'sabr,sabr,sabr'. This is not what sabr acually means. It's gunpower that you are encapsulating within yourself, which definitely is going to explode one day. And when it does, trust me, it's going to turnout pretty ugly. Secondly, as you are pretending to practice is fake sabr, you actually are jeopardizing your mental health, day by day. The point I trying to make here is that we should never hold grudge among anybody. It slowly but surely, kill your soul.  As soon as possible, talk to the person you are holding grudge against. Now here is where true sabr comes. When you   

               Pray Five Times a Day It will help with your discipline and self-control, which can further lead to many good habbits. It can enable you to eliminate that bad habit. But, know that it will not be easy at first, since it is an addiction you are trying to break. Keep in mind, "One Step At A Time".  Control Phone Usage Remember! Phone entertainment is a short term, fulse happiness which will jeopardize your future completely. It eats from you, the most valuable entity that you will ever have. Time. Secondly, it gives you a false hope. Learn from your past, remember how it stole your reality from you.